Clarify Your Calling

Are you living your true purpose? Bringing forth the unique gift only you are here to bring to the world? Do you even know what that is or looks like?

Or are you accumulating “the things” in some attempt at exterior validation and recognition, with the expectation that these things equate to happiness? But at what cost? Where in life are you not fulfilled? In a world where any distraction from connection to self is rife, do you know what you're truly trying to create or are you navigating the well worn path that isn't yours? Are all your actions aligned to the culmination of who you are and what you're here to share? If not, why not?

We've all to some degree been shaped by the world around us since birth. Society, family, culture, status, have all contributed to the shaping of our unconscious filled by our conscious belief, behaviors and actions. So we create our world based on habitual patterns and passed down beliefs for the most part. Maybe we've even been lucky enough to create the life we thought we wanted. Wealth, career, family and a certain lifestyle. Even having these things in place can still feel hollow and more stimulation (or distraction) is needed to maintain that lifestyle.

We often think abundance looks a certain way, more often that equates to a material sense. We pursue/create careers and lives tailored to that pursuit. But that can often lead to:

• Burn out

• Neglect of family and friends

• A continuously busy mind preoccupied more with past and future than what's present

• Compromising your own health and happiness

What if true abundance looks like more time, energy, presence, connection and happiness? Not at the expense of material wealth, but where material wealth is the byproduct of true alignment. Where you can rest in the knowledge you’re truly on purpose and creating the life you choose, not the one chosen for you.

Not being in total alignment with the world you created is often what's causing you to take on bad habits, addiction, distractions because it's easier than facing change or asking difficult questions of yourself and implementing new realities. Currently boxes may be ticked but something is missing, that piece that isn't filled with new things but born out of knowing you’re here to fulfill what makes you happy and in alignment with who you are.

In this 2-3 hr immersion into your essence we look at what's working and what not in life and where your true desires lie. Strip away the story and seek what's hidden, maybe because you’re too afraid to even admit to yourself as it could shake your entire equilibrium and foundation that you've been trying to maintain.

This call is about identifying and clarifying what’s below the surface for you and asking some deeper questions, the next steps of how you choose to integrate and take action is up to you. Be prepared to face limiting beliefs, emotions and behaviors, in order to create the life you truly want Are you willing to step beyond the expected into the magic of the unknown to create something unique?

Create Your Calling

From Birth (including in-utero) or we are shaped by our environment! Imprinting on our minds beliefs and behaviors that unconsciously shape who we are today.

The environment we grew up in, the culture we’re born into, the wealth, religion, education etc all have an effect on our world and the lens through which we see it.

We don't necessarily see what is true reality but more often what we expect to see, filtered through our beliefs and learned behaviors.

Any belief that we formed early on or were passed down to us can even affect how we operate in any given moment and the choices we make. This is the power of the unconscious mind.

Your conscious mind is shaped by the unconscious which takes in everything and comprises 90% of your decision making and operational faculties.

Many of your beliefs, behavior and habits are formed in the early years and reside in the unconscious mostly unexpressed or altered, still playing out patterns you formed as a reaction or protection for your benefit or detriment!

There is no linear time to the brain, it can't differentiate something that happened yesterday or 20yrs ago, especially if a negative association or trauma. So that bullying you received in the school yard, being yelled at for bouncing off the walls with youthful energy, to being told you'll never make it in life, not to mention actual physical abuse (all of these are trauma although we don't associate all with a traumatic experience). All show up now as alterations in behavior and belief.

Few things in life (relationships, starting your own business or having children ) can naturally help you advance or challenge your held perspective of life and move past some issues. But to truly get past those core beliefs we have to actively look, digging under the surface into the unconscious, ask deeper questions of ourselves and dismantle limiting or damaging beliefs or
patterns is true evolution.

On paper we can feel like we've made it, kicked life goals, made wealth or status and yet we have that niggling feeling there's more or this is close but not exactly what I wanted to do. Be it wanting more from your life, relationships or work.

Challenging those lifelong unconscious patterns that got us here for the fear of losing it all or radically changing our trajectory. But what if that was life’s invitation, what if more joy and happiness lies beyond the fear in the unknown.

The last few years especially have been challenging times and given us a much needed rest in the collective psyche but in that also a challenge!

The invitation to sit with self more than probably you ever have and maybe in that stillness questions you never asked before are arising.

What works where I am? Where actually am I? How do I feel about my situation, environment, life, relations etc. Where do I want to be? What more do I want to create?

If it was as simple as asking the questions we would have created change already. Could something be blocking us or holding us back?

Are you happy in your work, life, relationships? If not what is it creating in you, how present are you, how inspired are you, how in love with your work, life partner are you?

Are you challenging the status quo or have you slipped into mediocrity living out the same old patterns and behaviors not knowing how to change or even why?

Life should be an evolution and I'm not talking about constant hard work but an opportunity to become greater in every moment. How much are you striving for a greater destiny?

Now is the time to create a new reality free of the baggage, story or trauma that got you to believe or think you’re less than a truly expansive creative being.

Time to challenge the unconscious mind and create new lifelong skills and strategies to implement true change.

Human potential is vast and probably far greater than you've been led to think or imagined. Just look at the heights of ancient civilisation created without technology, some of which we don't even know how to recreate today!

The world is crying out for change.

Sweep away the mundane and ask deeper question like, why do I always create the same relationships or why do I always screw up work or finances, what stops me from being healthy etc.

Forget new years resolutions create lasting revolutions in you emotions and behaviors.

Overview
Time to get uncomfortable and dismantle your world to build an even more expansive creative beautiful new reality where you strive for more of what you want and let go of those thing that don't serve you any longer and implement new beliefs and behaviors

Specifics
Strategic inventory of where you are and what areas of life you wish to deconstruct or challenge to create new relations with those previously held beliefs/blocks/limitations.
Clarifying key areas of importance in your life and where you are with them, where you need to lean in more to what makes you happy while still being productive.
Conscious counseling to help you get beyond the conscious mind and tap into the subconscious
in order to reframe and repattern unconscious beliefs and limitations.
Unpacking of the core emotions that affect our daily lives, changing our relationship to them
through different methods to create change in the core patterns.
Through the use of clinical, energetic, spiritual and shamanic practices learn to realign to your
true desires and overcome limiting programs.
Development of new strategies and tasks to implement change and create new frameworks for
goal setting and achievement

Package
12 one on one personal weekly sessions
On call support (within limitations)
Tailored personal homework with embodiment tasks
Add on learning self development task downloads
This isnt for you if...
- You’re not willing to show up and commit to you own process of growth
- You’re not going to be open and vulnerable
- You won’t commit to homework tasks
- You’re not open to things outside your awareness regardless of how bizarre they seem.
Who this is for...
- People who are sick and tired of mediocrity who desire something greater
- Those who want to take their life, business or relationships (personal & external) to the next
level
- You’re open to go outside your comfort zone and challenge what they thought was possible
- Free and open thinkers willing to do what it takes to create change

Tantra and Bodywork

Ben works with both conscious and unconscious beliefs, emotional release and physical bodywork to maximise real change. He works with people to clear up old stories and habitual patterns, overcome blocks, numbness, or release limitations, emotions, physical or psychological trauma around sex. Explore new ways of connecting and expanding pleasure edges to achieve higher and higher states of orgasmic potential. Ben is a Certified sex educator and somatic body work practitioner and has studied tantra since 2004. He wishes to help you let go and expand your embodied experience. Sessions are tailored to focus on areas you wish to look at, either online or in person.

Rebirthing and Breathwork

Through breathwork, rebirthing allows us to move beyond the overactive conscious thought process and tap the subconscious, giving us the ability to tap into underlying stories and help rewrite and remove old unwanted scripts. Often in life we run on autopilot, reacting without the conscious understanding of what it is that shapes our interactions or decisions. Often we are acting on a prebuilt conditioned thought process established years ago. By working with Ben you can reshape experiences and get the most out of life. This session facilitates the release of blocked emotions and beliefs, to ultimately learn where our habitual thought processes begin and how we can change and rewrite those patterns.

Shamanic Sessions

Utilising various shamanic tools and practices to create clarity, change and release thoughts, emotions and energy.